How John Kennerley helped wife Kerri-Anne leave her abusive first husband

How John Kennerley helped wife Kerri-Anne leave her abusive first husband

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They were married for 35 years, but John and Kerri-Anne Kennerley started their romance as close friends in New York in the late ’70s. 

John, who tragically passed away on Wednesday aged 78, helped a traumatised Kerri-Anne leave her violent first husband, American record producer Jimmy Miller. 

He recalled how the Studio 10 star, 65, once turned up on his doorstep with a ‘black eye and a bloody nose’ after a fight that sparked the end of her abusive marriage and the start of their devoted union together. 

Supportive: John Kennerley, who died on Wednesday aged 78, helped  Kerri-Anne leave her violent first husband, American record producer Jimmy Miller (pictured, John and Kerri-Anne in 2014)

Supportive: John Kennerley, who died on Wednesday aged 78, helped  Kerri-Anne leave her violent first husband, American record producer Jimmy Miller (pictured, John and Kerri-Anne in 2014)

Supportive: John Kennerley, who died on Wednesday aged 78, helped  Kerri-Anne leave her violent first husband, American record producer Jimmy Miller (pictured, John and Kerri-Anne in 2014)

‘He [Jimmy] was very abusive at times and you realise you can’t go on like that. But also, it’s really hard to get out,’ Kerri-Anne told Seven’s Sunday Night in 2017.

‘You just realise that when somebody is 6-2, crazy off their head – doesn’t matter which room you run into, all you do is close your eyes and wait for it to be over, because it’s pointless. I think eventually you just go, “I think I will be dead”.’ 

The abuse got so bad that Kerri-Anne once pointed a gun at Jimmy and was prepared to kill him.   

‘He always had a .22 rifle above the door in the bedroom so I just remember I was actually quite calm about it – I just went and got the gun, aimed it at him and said, “I think I will shoot you if you come anywhere near me”,’ said Kennerley.

Loving: John recalled how the Studio 10 star, 65, turned up on his doorstep with a 'black eye and a bloody nose' - an ordeal that sparked the end of her violent marriage and the start of their blissful union together

Loving: John recalled how the Studio 10 star, 65, turned up on his doorstep with a 'black eye and a bloody nose' - an ordeal that sparked the end of her violent marriage and the start of their blissful union together

Loving: John recalled how the Studio 10 star, 65, turned up on his doorstep with a ‘black eye and a bloody nose’ – an ordeal that sparked the end of her violent marriage and the start of their blissful union together

Ordeal: Kerri-Anne admitted the abuse got so bad she once pointed a gun at Jimmy and was prepared to kill him. She met Jimmy in New York in the late '70s. Pictured, recalling the story to Seven's Sunday Night in 2017 

Ordeal: Kerri-Anne admitted the abuse got so bad she once pointed a gun at Jimmy and was prepared to kill him. She met Jimmy in New York in the late '70s. Pictured, recalling the story to Seven's Sunday Night in 2017 

Ordeal: Kerri-Anne admitted the abuse got so bad she once pointed a gun at Jimmy and was prepared to kill him. She met Jimmy in New York in the late ’70s. Pictured, recalling the story to Seven’s Sunday Night in 2017 

Jimmy, who was best known for working with acts such as The Rolling Stones and Eric Clapton, allegedly thought her threat was ‘actually quite funny.’

‘Until he realised that I really was serious, and that I did have a gun, and he knew it was loaded,’ she said. ‘The only thing that stopped me was the thought of 25 years in jail.’

John was on hand to support Kerri-Anne throughout the traumatic time, and took her in after a particularly abusive episode. 

‘When she arrived at my doorstep with a black eye and a bit of a bloody nose, I realised exactly what was happening,’ recalled John.

The pair returned to Australia together and tied the knot in an extravagant wedding at the Sydney Opera House in August 1984.

‘We were the first wedding at the Opera House. It was just really nice,’ she said about finding love with John.

'The only thing that stopped me was the thought of 25-years in jail' Kerri-Anne said her marriage to Jimmy started as a fairy-tale romance but turned into 'a secret hell'

'The only thing that stopped me was the thought of 25-years in jail' Kerri-Anne said her marriage to Jimmy started as a fairy-tale romance but turned into 'a secret hell'

‘The only thing that stopped me was the thought of 25-years in jail’ Kerri-Anne said her marriage to Jimmy started as a fairy-tale romance but turned into ‘a secret hell’

The couple suffered a devastating miscarriage in 1991 and never had any children, something that Kerri-Anne later admitted she regretted. John has two children from a previous marriage. 

The long-standing duo experienced further lows when John battled bowel cancer in 1998.  After overcoming the disease, he supported Kerri-Anne when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2012. 

She had two lumps removed and is back to full health but continues to take the cancer prevention drug tamoxifen, despite its negative effect on her eyesight. 

‘I know the exact moment when I discovered a lump,’ she told the Daily Telegraph while reflecting on her battle with cancer. 

Horror: 'When she arrived at my doorstep with a black eye and a bit of a bloody nose, I realised exactly what was happening,' recalled John. Pictured, Kerri-Anne in the '70s 

Horror: 'When she arrived at my doorstep with a black eye and a bit of a bloody nose, I realised exactly what was happening,' recalled John. Pictured, Kerri-Anne in the '70s 

Horror: ‘When she arrived at my doorstep with a black eye and a bit of a bloody nose, I realised exactly what was happening,’ recalled John. Pictured, Kerri-Anne in the ’70s 

‘When they talk about ice in the veins, it was ice in the veins. I’ve never really understood that expression. Until you feel it you don’t know.’

Speaking to Body And Soul, she added: ‘I never thought I’d get breast cancer, but I became an average statistic like too many others. 

‘I learnt I wasn’t bulletproof. I learnt about fear – not the making-a-fool-of-yourself-on-TV fear but the gut-wrenching, immobilising kind of fear.’ 

Kerri-Anne announced on Thursday that John had died at St. Vincent’s Hospital in Sydney on Wednesday night.

‘It’s with a heavy heart and awful sadness that I let you know that my beautiful husband John passed away last night,’ Kerri-Anne wrote alongside a photograph of the couple on their wedding day in 1984. 

Sweet: The pair returned to Australia together and tied the knot in an extravagant wedding at the Sydney Opera House in August 1984 (pictured)

Sweet: The pair returned to Australia together and tied the knot in an extravagant wedding at the Sydney Opera House in August 1984 (pictured)

Sweet: The pair returned to Australia together and tied the knot in an extravagant wedding at the Sydney Opera House in August 1984 (pictured)

‘As you all know, John has faced some tremendous challenges over the past few years and with each he has been extraordinarily brave and determined to overcome those hurdles and live a normal life.’

She went on: ‘I want to thank everyone at St Vincent’s Hospital for the beautiful care they have provided to John in his last days. 

‘John passed away peacefully with his son Simon and me by his side. John, you were the love of my life. Xxx’

He was left paralysed after falling from a balcony while taking photos of Kerri-Anne during a golfing tournament in Coffs Harbour, NSW, in March 2016.

He was airlifted to hospital with spinal chord injuries. Doctors operated on his neck after it emerged he had fractured his C3 and C4 vertebrae.  

Nightmare: The long-standing duo experienced lows when John battled bowel cancer in 1998. After overcoming the disease, he supported Kerri-Anne when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2012 (pictured in 2017)

Nightmare: The long-standing duo experienced lows when John battled bowel cancer in 1998. After overcoming the disease, he supported Kerri-Anne when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2012 (pictured in 2017)

Nightmare: The long-standing duo experienced lows when John battled bowel cancer in 1998. After overcoming the disease, he supported Kerri-Anne when she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2012 (pictured in 2017)

John was put in an induced coma, spent six weeks in intensive care and had multiple operations. Doctors diagnosed him as an incomplete quadriplegic.

They initially warned that John may never again move or speak, but with Kerri-Anne by his side, he managed both. 

‘[Kerri-Anne] is very loving and she has been the strength of my whole recovery,’ John said in a rare Sunday Night interview in 2017. 

‘Without her I don’t think I would have attempted it but, as I say, she was there when I woke up and she has been with me every day,’ John explained. ‘It is really, really been hard… I have appreciated it, she never faltered. Never faltered.’ 

Fall: He was left paralysed after falling from a balcony while taking photos of Kerri-Anne during a golfing tournament in Coffs Harbour, NSW, in March 2016 (pictured during his eight-month say in hospital) 

Fall: He was left paralysed after falling from a balcony while taking photos of Kerri-Anne during a golfing tournament in Coffs Harbour, NSW, in March 2016 (pictured during his eight-month say in hospital) 

Fall: He was left paralysed after falling from a balcony while taking photos of Kerri-Anne during a golfing tournament in Coffs Harbour, NSW, in March 2016 (pictured during his eight-month say in hospital) 

 

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